Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts

Friday, August 26, 2011

Our Classroom Norms: C.A.R.S.



Posting rules in my classroom has not been my strength. It’s a back-to-school expectation, but I have always struggled with this duty. I was a loop-hole sort of kid myself, and I was very good at developing my own interpretations of the meanings of the rules. Many an exhausted teacher suggested that I save my talents for debate or law school. As a result, I managed a somewhat successful career without this traditional list on the walls of my little lab.


Today, a student addressed this predicament for me. A gifted (former) graffiti artist, he came to me with a piece of paper and asked how to spell, “confidentiality . . . attendance . . . safety . . . “ After I wrote them for him, I went back to addressing the needs of the American History students.


Later, the young man told me I needed to turn and look at the “CARS” he had created. I turned to see the following in beautiful lettering on the blackboard:

Classroom Norms

confidentiality

Attendance

Respect

Safety

This addition to the lab stimulated a great deal of discussion but not any dissent. The following points were discussed:


Confidentiality-

Somewhere to let your guard down and someone to talk to without fear that your vulnerability will be someone’s entertainment.


Attendance-

Showing up means something. Someone cares enough to make you miserable when you don’t show up.


Respect-

Everyone. Everyday. All the time.


Safety-

Physical. Emotional. Creative. Cognitive. You can’t reach your full potential without it. School may be the only sanctuary available.


I like it . . . all of it. I like it a lot. I found the term, “norms,” especially interesting. This isn’t a list of ‘do’s’ and ‘don’ts;’ it’s simply the standard we have set for our community. Thank goodness I neglected to hang those rules.

Tuesday, August 23, 2011

Little Ears Are Listening


Halloween was a few days away, and I sat at the front of a circle created by 20 brown and 2 white faces. The children were excited and jabbered about their plans to Trick-or-Treat. As I listened to what they planned to dress as, my ears perked up when a young man with crimson hair innocently exclaimed, “My dad said we can go to lots of houses, but not our neighbors. They’re a bunch of Mexicans.” Before I could address the statement, the circle of Hispanic faces agreed with him and said they couldn’t go to Mexican houses, either.

  • Dear God, forgive us for what we say to our children.